hey guys. it's been a while.
i guess i should write a blog on here. becca's right when she says that writing stuff helps when you have a lot on your mind.
there's one thing i specifically wanna talk about; the way relationships can ruin a friendship.
never ever date your best friend. in the long run, it's not gonna turn out pretty. and you run the risk of losing a great friend. sure you can say 'oh but we're such good friends, if we break up we'll still be best mates'. it's not likely to happen. friendship means more than a realtionsip ever will. when it comes down to it friends are eternal. relationships fade and friendship fades with it. if you have a best friend, no matter how much you might love them and how right it might seem for you to get together, i'd highly recommend you don't. if you break up, things will probably never be the same again. you'll look back on the time you were friends and wish it could go back to being that. and you'll look back to the days, weeks or months you were a couple and miss it and no matter how much you try it'll be so hard to be around them knowing what you once shared. you'll never be able to stop thinking 'what if ...'. i think, no matter how close you are, even if you're practically dating as friends, don't let a relationship ruin a friendship.
leave some comments. tell me what you think ? am i being silly ? or is that a valid point ? you tell me !
beks x
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I think that your right in a way, about how it hardly ever works out
ReplyDeletebut why are only friendships eternal, and relationships not? why do you say relationships always fade but friendships dont?
i can't really say. im only speaking from personal experience and this is only my opinion. in my opinion, it seems that friendships are a lot easier to keep than relationships. there are a lot of things than can jeopardise relationships.
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